Preparing for a Custody Evaluation: Steps to Take

Tammy Adcock
Sep 22, 2024By Tammy Adcock

Going through a custody evaluation can be a stressful experience. But with the right preparation, you can approach it with confidence. Here are some steps to help you get ready.

Understand the Process

The first step is to understand what a custody evaluation involves. A professional will assess your family situation to provide recommendations on custody arrangements. They will look at various factors, including your relationship with your child and your ability to meet their needs.

Knowing what to expect can help you feel more at ease. You can ask your lawyer for details or research online to get a clearer picture.

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Prepare relevant documents ahead of time. This includes school records, medical records, and any other documents that show your involvement in your child's life. Having these documents ready can make the process smoother.

Keep a Log

It can also be helpful to keep a log of your daily interactions with your child. Note activities you do together, appointments you attend, and any other relevant details. This log can provide a clear picture of your role in your child's life.

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 The evaluator is there to understand your family dynamics, so it's important to be truthful. Avoid exaggerating or hiding information, as this can work against you.

Communicate Clearly

Clear communication is key. Listen carefully to the evaluator's questions and answer them as clearly as possible. If you don't understand a question, don't hesitate to ask for clarification.

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Consider working with a divorce coach. They can provide guidance and help you prepare for the evaluation. Be honest, and keep your child's best interests at heart. You can do this.